I was disturbed at the clear signs of abuse in this novel thus far, which isn't explicitly said but is definitely implied in the actions and words of the character. It is an underlying theme that leaves an impression on the reader. It seems that Nathan, is caught in between his abusive father and his first love, Roy. Roy is seen as extremely controlling in the novel, and at times could be emotionally abusive. This is definitely not what love is, and it's sad to watch a character be so naive about his situation. I know they are trying to hide their relationship, but the power differential leaves you feeling uneasy. There were clear signs of child abuse of the dad, because of the fact that Nathan slept with his clothes on in case he had to run, implies that something was not right in the household. It's very sad that his mother remained silent throughout, and basically turned a blind eye to her son who so desperately needed her help. His parents are symbols of failure for treating him this way, and especially his mom for not intervening and helping her son.
It is sad that a child could be subjected to such abuse, but it happens everyday. The mother should be held accountable just as much as the father in this story. She is just as responsible as the father. The supreme court overturned capital punishment for child rape cases, but this is a prime example where I believe such a controversial opinion night be a viable option to deter such crimes.
ReplyDeleteI think the term emotionally abused was not a well known term in the 1970's. I think even today people in relationships cannot identity emotional abuse. With Nathan, he is so in search of love with the condition of his family that he is blind to this unknown type of abuse.
ReplyDeleteNathan seems to have a issue of withdrawal. People that suffer with emotional tend to come back to those that sent out the abuse. He isn't able to identify it because he has been condition to endure it.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you Maci that Nathan is often abused and taken advantage of, this also caught my attention while reading the novel. I think it is crazy how far the men in Nathan's life (especially his father) are allowed to go with the mistreatment. It is clear to me that the women in the display little power or courage against men, otherwise, the abuse would have stopped.
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